Imagine, hair. The elusive, coveted “good” hair. On some days and for some people, that is my hair. Or was. Or can be. But you should know by now – Don’t. Touch. My. Hair.
For, I am my hair, a collection of memories twisted together with thread, bundled in intricate knots and layers of life’s undulations.
My hair is my identity. Natural, braided, crocheted or straight there is mystery hidden in my hair. My kinks hold secrets. Pain and joy; that is mine to reveal. An extension of my body and my SELF. On my dime and in the style that I choose.
My hair is my crown, a melody in the wind, my hair, Is…
All the embellishments sewn and braided onto my hair have independent integrity. Their meaning amplified into my shine and ‘joyful noise’ when I turn my head.
My hair is not immune to the weather, a flimsy umbrella, or a shower cap. I have to tackle frizz, knots, twist, pin and part, dye the gray out and trim my ends. My neck and aching lower back can attest.
My hair holds memories of being sent to the person who could ‘do my hair’. To tame it, quiet it down. Not unlike, the me in the world that held her tongue and had her hair hot combed until it did not offend so I could be “heard” in business meetings. All to “fit in” and make you feel comfortable.
And yet, you still touch my hair without permission. What is YOUR reasoning for touching? It seems you are asking – how are we different? My question in return- how are we the same?
With this work, I have created a bridge on which to meet you.
Created during open studio yarn wrapping and knotting sessions, I invite the community to wrap and hitch knot thousands of yards of yarn, recycled sari thread, plastic cord, ribbon and pom-poms onto 100′ of cotton ropes.
Hundreds of participants have imbued their essence, becoming a part of each rope, while discussing the trials and tribulations of our gray hair, teal hair, thinning hair, hats, wigs, weaves, braids and locs.
Despite these differences, we found a common denominator amongst us all, HAIR.
Please Don’t. Touch. Our. Hair.
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Miss Thesa this is my first time seeing your works and I am so very proud of you sis. You are brilliant and channeling you ur creativity to share your innermost thoughts and some secrets with the masses is truly inspiring! I see your light is still shining bright!
Eternal love,
K. Byrd